Would it be ok for Raphael to know his name/age/basic stuff? He tends to look, just so he knows what he's dealing with when he mets someone. He won't dig deeper than name/age/gender/not-human if you'd prefer.

Healer based powers people he might start claiming after a while but it's going to take months of IC stuff to get him there.

And sure! I've mentioned it to Lynn about Erik - it would take something huge for him to just wipe memories from people - it's not a difficult thing to do but it's not often done. But if he does develop fondness for someone he might eventually offer to ease a particularly bad memory or strengthen a particularly good one.

I mostly use perms post replies as a record as to who might want to what what kind of stuff later.